Half-Partner

How much you know about your half-partner? Introspect yourselves with these features.

1. Likes
2. Dislikes
3. Passion
4. Strength
5. Weakness
6. Habits
7. Thought process
8. Understanding capacity
9. Desires
10. Feelings
11. Responsiveness
12. Responsibility
13. Forgiveness
14. Expectations
15. Humility
16. Seduction
17. Patience
18. Anger

Further to address the thought process..

Why should I have to know?
Gives you an idea about the odd-part that you need to focus upon to raise your relationship bond to the next level. Also it makes you to know about yourself.

How to know ?
I think it's a secret known to the couple themselves. Each human being is a unique design. In similar lines, relationship bond of every couple might have been unique too; hence the process to know about their half-partner knows only to the couple themselves.

What to do now?
 I believe a persons life is a bundle of choices made at different moments as per the thoughts consumed from environment. I just pen down my thought process. It depends on your choice; whether to give a thought about these features or ignore the idea itself.

Expression

The expression is the link between your inner world and outer world. Anything which is NOT expressed outside gets suppressed inside and leads to unimaginable results. This applies to both positive and negative emotions.

Expressing emotions without expectation leads to a very good experience.

Emotions need to be expressed in the same way as it is felt inside without any filtration. Simply -" say what you mean and mean what you say".

Expressing everything to the outer world as felt in the inner world doesn't mean that one has to allow negative emotions to grow inside and vomit them out to gain peace. One has to attain the capability to ignore the negative emotions to avoid its growth inside the inner world.

Imagine your inner world is full of positive emotions and the only way to interact with the outer world is to express positive emotions which benefit everyone. Voilà!!! I think that will be an awesome experience and for such a HEART, I bow with all respect.

Believe In YourSELF

A person should be respected for NO reason. The fact that this living being came from Nature, from which each and every living being came forth is suffice to win respect.  And a fact that we truly neither know his past nor his future is truth to be digested. Moreover we are completely void of his potential and the purpose for which he came into this world. Hence in my view to judge a person is completely wrong,whatever may be the situation.

In this regard, I illustrate a short story in my own way. Once upon a time, a person was born. Society judged him as Zero_Male. Nobody used to play with the Kid. He became an introvert. In Meantime he turned to his Adulthood. One fine day he came across a girl who is also treated by the society as Zero_Female. The impact of Pain brought them together and they became good friends. Their Friendship matured into their Marriage and they rejoiced in their own world. Society didn't like their bond, arrested Zero_Male and thrown him into Prison. Zero_Male cursed his fate and reluctantly spent his time in Jail thinking of his Girl. One day, Zero_Female approached him and with great difficulty surpassing the restrictions of the society, informed him that she is pregnant and it's the time for the child to see the world. Zero_Male couldn't know the way to react and cursed his helplessness situation. Society again didn't like and they began cursing Zero_Female. As per the society, a Zero_Child is the definite result from Zero_Couple and is of NO use to the society. But Nature blessed this So_Called_Zero_Couple with Infinity_Child. Society was struck with awe. They involuntarily bowed to the child with fear and respect. They couldn't digest the fact that from Nothing, Everything came up. Thereafter they came to their senses and felt that their process of judgment is wrong. Society released Zero_Male from prison and decided to leave them as per their own choice. Zero_Male felt happy to experience the situation which he dreamed. His confidence in his own SELF-raised exponentially.

With this incident, society FELT- "To judge a living being is always wrong but didn't dared to put an end to their judgment process, instead thought to improvise the process"

Dear friend, Judgment of the society about you, changes from time to time as per their understanding level of your situation. Ignore the judgment of society, both even & odd. Just believe in yourSELF, rejoice in yourSELF, Love yourSELF. Remember you are unique and a masterpiece carved by the hands of supreme, nature, the Almighty.

Note:  The above-illustrated story is taken from the Video

Almighty

People say you are responsible for their sufferings and blame you for each and  every odd event in this world. Let them be blessed  with wisdom to realize that every situation is the result of their own choices. 

Some people say you exist only in their religions and Some people deny your existence. Let them realize that you exist in each and every HEART of living being.

People give you a name, form and imagine you as per their wishes. Let them realize that by doing so they are trying to confine an omnipotent, omnipresent into a finite being. 

Some people on your name, claim themselves as door to reach you; thereby misguide ignorant masses with their magical powers. Let the ignorant masses be blessed with wisdom to follow their HEART and common sense.

People make a deal with you privately about their wishes and even go to the extent of bribing you for fulfillment of their wishes. Let them be given strength to come out of the holy trap.

People feel they have sinned. Let them realize that there is no such thing called Sin; Guilt about an assumed thing called Sin is a result of wrong thinking. 

People are afraid that you punish them for their sins. Let them realize that you are void of Attributes. 

Love of everyone in this world is backed up by a reason and it's longevity is driven by their expectations. Your Love waits for me irrespective of my response. Only your Love is void of judgement, expectations and reason.

For me you are Love; for such Love I surrender mySELF.

Help!!!

Out of Satvik nature most of us try to help the others in whatever way they would like to help. It is good to be good. A simple thought passed away from my mind giving birth to an idea, which queried : How many ways one can help other ? And What is the best way to help other? 

I think to answer this query we may have to ask a fundamental query - How can we define HELP ? I think one's  definition of this word reveals the thought process behind his help-to-others act.

If I may be allowed to define - I define it as an act to ease others SITUATION to reach their desired GOAL. 

Now, depending on the SITUATION and GOAL, the help can be measured in varying degrees. SITUATION can be Physical weakness, Psychological weakness; GOAL can be Material, Spiritual.

For instance, to help a person in need to go to hospital, giving lift to a stranger on the road seeing his physical disability, financing a person to improve his health can be categorized as "Physical weakness to achieve Material goal".

For instance a help to raise a financial situation of a person, recommendation for a job may be categorized as "Psychological situation for achieving Material Goal".

For instance a help to listen to  problems in their relationships and to give advice to solve seemed_to_be_problems, proactively pointing to their mistakes in a gentle way and showing them the path to overcome their mistakes, helping them to overcome their bad habits, Guiding them to the path which could reveal their true nature, raise their standard of thought process  can be categorized as "Psychological situation for achieving Spiritual goal".

To improve health of a Person, thereby extending his life span to reach his Spiritual Goal can be categorized as "Physical weakness to achieve Spiritual Goal".

In my view the highest HELP one can do is to raise "Physical strength of a Person to achieve Spiritual goal". This help can be done only by the Person who Mastered his Mind. It's NOT possible for a normal person who struggle to control his Mind.

In my view, for a normal person (like me) who strive to Master his Mind, the best Possible help one can do to others will be to raise a Person's psychological strength to achieve Spiritual Goal.

My Own SELF

When you are with me,

I rejoiced and thought it's impossible to live without you

When you left me alone in this world,

I thought - "An unimaginably worst thing happened and How could the world go on as it is, as if nothing happened? Does that mean this world doesn't recognize my pain? Am I nothing to this world? Who could give me my Mothers Love? And the major question for me at that tender age is Where could Mother would have gone? How could she even think that I could live without her? And out of anger, I thought - My mother always prayed to God and is a regular temple goer. In spite of performing all these rituals, How can GOD take away her from this world? Or In another way, because she did all the rituals, is it that GOD liked her and called her to the heaven earlier than usual? Neither anyone asked me to express the feelings out nor I did myself, may be due to lack of knowledge that "sharing thoughts with others could relieve pain to some extent". 

These emotions engulfed my heart, resulting in an outburst of tears and in bewilderment couldn't understand the way to live without you. This sadness made me meet with Pain. Pain resulted in Anger and I showed it on to every person that I met in this world. I was a child who went into chaos completely. 

When Mother Earth showed me the path through its ancient scriptures about the possibility of living even without your physical presence, 

Initially, I didn't believe but thought to give it a try

When I turn within my own SELF, as per the guidance of Mother Earth,

I begin to gain psychological strength and it helped me to relieve myself from the sadness, pain that surrounded me since you left.

It's impossible to know a thing being within the very thing. In the similar lines  I being in your remembrance it's impossible to know if I remember you every moment. I think I remember you when I actually forget you; being lost in worldly activities.

You showed me the path to arrive in this world and Mother Earth showed me the path to live in this world with Non- Attachment. I miss you and your Love till my last breath, but now the difference is I no longer cry for your physical presence but I rejoice within my own SELF. 

If anybody asks me: Who is with you at the moment of pain and sorrow? I answer them - "It's my own SELF; my HEART". And the fact that this HEART came through You ignites my

Mind to think more about you. 

No words can exactly express an inner feeling, but today just thought to try to express it in the best possible manner. Here I put a dot on my expression.

Judgement

This Blog is for all those who try to judge the process, which I took up to reach the predefined GOAL, by observing weakness that I exhibit in day-to-day activities.

It would be foolish to try to understand the capabilities of an ocean by studying the phenomenal characteristics of a small canal. In the similar lines, it would be nothing but foolishness and ignorance to judge the capability of the process I took up by observing weakness that I exhibit. If ever you are still stuck with the idea of observe-And-Judge then observe my strength but NOT weakness, because all Strength exhibited is a result of the process that I have undertaken and all weakness exhibited is my own fault.  I exhibit the weakness when I don't follow the process and ignore the chosen path for that moment. I assure you that I am working on it by raising the standard of my thought process. 

Even though sometimes I am away from the chosen path, I would be back on the path in no time. Please know yourself that by observing my behavior and concluding/judging the chosen path you are actually losing your precious time, which would have been ideally spent for reaching your GOAL.

With the grace of Almighty, My Master, surely there comes a moment when my samskaric burden is empty and I no longer exhibit any weakness but will you be there with me to know this fact? Introspect yourself on this point.

My friend, don't attempt to judge the process by observing anyone. Judge the process by practicing it and by experiencing IT yourself, because each and everyone is struggling with their own self to empty the burden of their Samskaras in their own way. In Spiritual adventures, follow your Heart but NOT Mind.